I have needs, strong needs that need to be met. No its not what you think, recently I have been a little off with my work, with school and with my friends. I find myself evaluationg all those around me and just trying to find those outside of my family that truly give me comfort. I'm really in search of some Sex and theCity friends, some girls who really have my back no matter what. People who I can disclose my inner feelings to, my problems, my hopes, my secrets, my inner turmoil and have them really just listen, throw some advice my way and leave it alone. I want a Jack, quirky and full of sarcasm to offset my seriousness and I want a Will to be my cuddle buddy, no strings attatched, no chance of them trying to put the moves on me, just comfort. Yeah I mixed TV shows so what its my blog... anywhoo I can't help but wonder if S&C's really happen. I mean do they exist? My favorite TV show is Sex and the City and I watch as these women end up in their various situations time after time but the one thing that is consistant is the sisterhood they share. Its the bond that through all the men, mistakes and arguments is never broken. I can't help but wonder where my S&C's are.
Heres to you very own S&C's,
Kay Exquisite
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Oh my goodness,reading this comment was like reading my diary! I have often wondered if it's possible to make friends like the kind we see on T.V shows. More specifically, I Love Will&Grace (I own all eight seasons). Back on topic, true friendship is hard to find. I have a handful of true friends outside of my family. I wonder if it's just luck that allows us to find girlfriends who truly have our back and that we can share our deepest fears with as well as our greatest triumps. I see so many of us betray each other for selfish reasons by talking about one another, sleeping with someone's significant other or not being supportive. I want to see us protect each other, have each others backs and uplift one another. You are not alone in wanting to covet true friendhip and who values sisterhood which means - There's Hope. If the energy you put forth in the world is positive, it will be returned to you!
It's out there! It really is. But as we all know, life gets complicated. I have really great friends but it's been hard to keep that closeness with all of life's changes. I moved, they moved, I got married, then all of us did and now we all have babies. I'm searching now too because my baby is older and I have more flexibility in my schedule in terms of going out and just having fun and they don't. It's hard! But when you find even the glimmer of that friendship, you'll know and you'll have to fight to keep it. But in the end, knowing that someone's got your back through thick and thin, blood or not, is definitely worth it!
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